After having a interesting conversation with one of the most amazing women in my life, I started thinking..... is it possible to find the man of your dreams?
While some people search for that jaw dropping physical countenance, I find myself needing more in order to "fall in love".
Granted its human nature for there to be some degree of physical attraction in order for a relationship to succeed, but what do I NEED to make it SOLID.
What exactly entails stability of my heart??
A man who is KIND but doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve. A man who is intelligent and understanding of LIFE. A man who has permanence:mentally, physically, emotionally, & financially. Someone who spoils me ONCE IN A BLUE MOON... and doesn't throw what he does for me in my face.A man that makes me laugh but LISTENS when I'm sad. A man that accepts my past with intentions on bettering my future. A man who knows how to make a woman feel good SEXUALLY, not just the penetration principle but the importance of the emotional aspect. A man who isn't afraid to be proud of their other half, confident with showing his love for me to the world. Someone who doesn't allow the natural warm blooded desire for more lead him in the direction of infidelity. Honesty.....fluent in the language of honesty!!
Last but not least...a man who loves MY LOVE, MY LIFE, MY HALF THAT MAKES ME WHOLE, MY REASONING, MY #1....my daughter...AUDREY.
You would think all of those traits would be something that people strived for. TRUE LOVE is on the verge of exstinction. I can't give up hope that I don't live in a land of mental make believe.
*hesouttherewaitingforme*
this is amazing. :)
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ReplyDeleteTrue love isn't on the verge of distinction. There are many of us who still believe. But because of past hurts we've become withdrawn. Almost scared to love again. One thing I do know is that your one is out there. But timing has to be right. Perfect timing to realize the greatness that stands before you. Willing to give you all that your heart desires. Being with the right person at the wrong time is just as detrimental as being in the right place at the wrong time.
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